B2L2

Well, if you read my post above (#20), between wife and me, we both have our personal accounts as well.

My wife is like Sko who doesn't like to deal with $$$ or investment.  She always want to get me manager all money related issues.  I force her to have her own account anyway and set her up on her own investment.  I think this setup is better for her.  However, this is different if the original purpose is to 保障自己.

fibbi

Yeah my responses were about giving all $ to other to manage (as I derived from Sko's post).

In real life I guess just set up joint account and pay expense from that account.

stevoo

Obvious pick is the 2nd man la.  Tough life v.s. easier life.

Off-topic.  Between the two of us, we ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-8-10 11:04

Absolutely agreed with u on that. Me and my wife do the same thing but there is one down side to it which I can't really buy her any surprise gift cause she'll know the cost and where I got that from!

stevoo

回復  ayako


    我明你個問題嘅point。多＄嘅男人有好大機會身痕。
但係，我覺得做工做人都好都要有buf ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-8-10 10:37

吾同意! 男人係有冇$都會身痕Lor!

sko

Trust is earned: easy to break, far more difficult to build. If I don't trust my future husband, I wouldn't marry him. If I chose to marry him, then why not trust him? That said, I hope he would trust me, too. Hence, there's a difference between boyfriend/girlfriend versus husband/wife/common law partners.

And the question $8K vs $80K was a no brainer equation to me. I consider a husband and a wife a “family unit”. Why make less as a team when you can make more? Just so the husband has less extra cash to spend? Then it all goes back to the trust issue, not money issue…

And if it was not a trust issue… but rather a justification on how much your husband loves you based on the ratio of his salary to you as 家用, then it’s even more immature to choose the first option in my opinion.

fibbi

吾同意! 男人係有冇$都會身痕Lor!
stevoo 發表於 2012-8-10 12:20

    啱，有＄無＄都可以身痕，不過有＄嘅就比無＄嘅有能力去實行。

jiujiujiu

啱，有＄無＄都可以身痕，不過有＄嘅就比無＄嘅有能力去實行。
fibbi 發表於 2012-8-10 14:25

係呀~ 哈哈哈~
男人係無錢就心痕, 有錢就身痕架啦!
係男人都信唔過架啵! 特別係瞓响隔離嗰件呀! 因為如果外人要呃你, 都只係可以呃你面嗰"浸", 但如果係瞓响你隔離嗰件呃你呢, 就隨時由最底嗰"浸"呃到去最嗰"浸"~
所以, 做女人都係有定plan B, plan C, plan D 等等等等... 去保障自己比較好, 萬一有咩E郁, 都有備無患吖嘛~ 有咩事要起個男人飛腳, 都要有番些少本事先得架~ 唔係就無人幫到自己架喇~

lo_pak

回復 37# jiujiujiu

十萬個認同…

rainbow-davie

月入八萬  for sure.

Catpiano

Wow....same thing pop up....

Should I take the "time machine" from Ding Dong, or "anywhere door" ?




(p.s. I would love to get a job to make $80k per month!! I will be super happy.... Wont think any of those silly question.... Even $20k per month..I am happy! )