快樂牛郎

但係都解釋唔到個病係點嘢返嚟。
大C姐 發表於 2012/9/3 19:45

因為香港社會太富裕
好多人都未窮過
所以認為所有野都係理所當然

fibbi

我又唔覺得問題係關有工人事，當然，好多人冇自理能力係真，係因爲由細到大都唔洗做家務。但係個＂ ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-9-3 19:45

    我覺得，就算上一代嘅人有媽姐，工人，始終家庭都係男主外，女主內，媽媽就算唔做家務唔洗做嘢都留喺屋企教仔，所以家教好啲。而且媽姐唔係做家務咁簡單，都會教吓仔架，亦會係家庭中嘅一份子。而家公一份，婆一份，對住仔女時間少咗，仔女靜係對住賓賓，賓賓就一定唔會教仔。

大C姐

我覺得，就算上一代嘅人有媽姐，工人，始終家庭都係男主外，女主內，媽媽就算唔做家務唔洗做嘢都留 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-9-4 09:06

    呢個point我buy！因爲以前大家族就算有工人，家教都會相對嚴。相反，上一代草根階層啲細佬冇王管，可能自生自滅又會培養出一份承擔同耐力。

大C姐

我自己有時都覺得香港女（唔想用＂港女＂呢個字眼）有啲唔抵爭。

除咗典型港女難頂之外，有幾個常見嘅type都幾沒趣...

＂乖乖女型＂－冇事業心，冇特別技能，冇咩興趣，冇乜壞習慣，滴酒不沾，唔吹唔蒲，唔算花枝招展，但係又未必係一個識家頭細務嘅賢妻良母。驟眼覺得呢類女仔冇咩唔好，但係相處之後男仔會嫌冇情趣，甚至覺得冇挑戰而打入冷宮。一個字，悶！

＂事業型＂－有好多女仔讀得書多賺到錢未必真係睇唔起人但係就唔會化妝打扮去討好男性。難得有空凈係會同同事／女性朋友去happy hour同旅行。講嘅話題同常係職場是非，買樓同點搵錢。呢類通常好少甚至冇拍過拖，完全冇俾機會自己識男仔／俾男仔追。

另外仲有＂怨婦型＂同＂有錢女型＂都非常常見，下次再講。

講開有錢人，不禁想講返我之前提過嘅中女問題。

＂有錢女型＂－就係一啲女仔come from有錢／中產以上嘅家庭，由細到大都習慣咗享受，對所有嘢都有要求。當然老豆老母又會推波助瀾，想個女對異性眼角高啲啦。形成呢班女仔有意冇意對所有人都比較挑剔。當佢哋站喺一個＂品味高地＂，好難叫佢哋投入一段感情，因為meet到standard嘅男仔唔多，有亦未必要揀＂有錢女＂。

另外＂怨婦型＂係指一啲有過去的女人。呢啲女人可以有錢有事業有智慧，但係就係放唔低一啲過去嘅感情。成日開口埋口講自己唔洗靠男人，＂我為我生存＂，要＂活得比你好＂。而且會慫恿身邊啲姊妹撇男友，經常數男人／前度嘅不是。但係其實如果唔係孤單寂寞，又點會咁bitter?

Ovaltine

Interesting topic..my parents always try to introduce me to family friends or try very hard to find someone for me. to the point they probably think i am gay...i let them think that way, because personally am happy without a relationship. I mean if I live in Vancouver, i live with my parents, dating game means i would have to dating including my family members, and also the other family members. not a viable option. ****ing around and flings is good enough, holiday romance is awesome too.

if you don't live in a family, then u really need someone to take care of you, but i hate how chinese family they need family approval for a girlfriend or a boyfriend. we don't really have freedom of choice.

thats is probably why asian are lowest of the dating food chain, family come into picture, u see western people are usually self-sufficient, they live alone, freedom lifestyle. but we have to take care of family, and usually family becomes a burden.

fibbi

回復 35# Ovaltine


    Not all Western people are that "free". I know Italian are quite family oriented as well.

Ovaltine

回復 36# fibbi


    perhaps based on past family history, i find it to be a burden to my individual soverignty. i actually like girls who are family oriented, but i myself is not..what a paradox.

Ovaltine

we hk men are no good at all too, feminine gay pussies, living with parents until the age of 40 is the social norm for hong kong guys. hair slighting thinning from the frequent of brothels or watching japanese av. talk about fly cars all the time.

thats one of the few, more to add ladies?

大C姐

Interesting topic..my parents always try to introduce me to family friends or try very hard to find  ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-9-4 21:35

    我想問Ovaltine你幾歳先？

如果你已經３０幾，我諗你屋企人都會開始急，都唔會理你同咩人拍拖啦。

同埋你自己有冇能力自己搬出去先？如果同屋企人住係難啲，但係都唔係完全唔可以date。我覺得睇對方配唔配合倒啦。

大C姐

回復  Ovaltine


    Not all Western people are that "free". I know Italian are quite family orient ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-9-4 21:39

    好多西人就算唔係同屋企人住都可能有roommates，所以都唔一定可以帶返屋企玩。

其實呢度已經好好，香港居住環境又細，出到街都冇咩私人空間甚至好易撞到熟人！