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    就算劉德華都有結婚啦。。。哈哈

你講得啱嘅就係一定要知道自己想要咩。
想結婚生仔，定係想遊戲人間，戀愛大過天，咩都係一個choice。自己舒服開心就得。無咩話啱唔啱。

zuesel

心態上可以有灰色地帶，但係實際上結同唔結係好black and white㗎噃，好多人分手都係因為各持己見。 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-12 14:09

by "no need to be too black and white", I mean on the context of view point, not the subject itself.

布小熊

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    就算劉德華都有結婚啦。。。哈哈

你講得啱嘅就係一定要知道自己想要咩。
想結婚生仔， ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-12 02:39 PM

agree
Having a serious long term relationship, the two persons need to have the same life goal.
Being a hard to bring up topic or not, it needs to be discussed at a certain point down the road. If both sides just want to play, then they can agree to do so.
It doesn't make sense to drag on if both wants different goal. If one REALLY want to have kids and the other REALLY hate and will avoid at all cost to be a parent, then there is no point of staying together. Andy Lau-look-alike or not.
If one side agrees to compromise, then it's at least a topic that had been discussion instead of a "guessing game".

大C姐

If both sides just want to play, then they can agree to do so.
布小熊 發表於 2012-10-12 14:47

    先唔好講唔結婚＝想繼續玩，我覺得好多人拍拖都可以好認真，都會想一生一世。

因爲我有女朋友嘅case係，個男朋友大過自己超過十年，結過婚，對佢嚟講已經唔需要或者唔想再結多次。但係佢絕對鍾意／照顧個女朋友，亦過晒花沸嘅年紀。咁點呢，如果個女仔愛個男人，係應該配合同體諒佢唔結婚都得，還是好似fibbi咁唔結唔得企硬呢？

fibbi

先唔好講唔結婚＝想繼續玩，我覺得好多人拍拖都可以好認真，都會想一生一世。

因爲我有女朋友嘅cas ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-12 15:10

咁就好睇邊個就邊個嘞。
而其中一個考慮因素，就係想唔想要小朋友。要小朋友嘅話就應該結婚。

大C姐

咁就好睇邊個就邊個嘞。
而其中一個考慮因素，就係想唔想要小朋友。要小朋友嘅話就應該結婚。 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-12 15:33

    咁你一定唔會就對方啦。


其實生小朋友係咪一定要結婚都係另一個欄目......

chunsh

咁你一定唔會就對方啦。


其實生小朋友係咪一定要結婚都係另一個欄目...... ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-12 16:01

I dont think it is necessary if religion doesn't come to play

chunsh

seriously, how come no one think about the real reason for marriage in the very very old days (oh please, try think deeper rather than simply throw out some religious/bad romance reasons)

yuusaku

我想知有幾多人係打算有下一代但唔諗會結婚嘅？is it a common concept nowadays?

ah3

好明白婚姻對好多人來講係一個commitment
如果兩個人相愛想一齊走落去隨之結婚
完全無問題
只不過眼看現今社會離婚係幾咁普遍
就睇下啲娛樂圈名人
結婚好多年離婚嘅有
結婚離婚好幾次嘅又有
仲可能加埋分身家嗰啲核突嘢
就算當初結婚時係有個commitment
兩個人的而且確係諗住一齊行之後嘅路
但係要分開嘅時候就分開架啦
結婚時嘅commitment海誓山盟都只係往事嘞
咁即係點
唔係想話結婚係應唔應該或者須唔須要
但係個commitment其實保證到啲咩呢?