ani

哈哈
是否因為台灣人想法比較不一樣
我覺得自己已經是個 "老餅"...................................
我已經 26 啦..
一個"卡"人 (不上+不下=卡)
哈哈...

ok.. 正經點
我雖然不是恐龍
可是也不漂亮...
現在有男朋友

我感嘆
其實是因為我跟男朋友聊過結婚的話題
他有想要跟我結婚
可是我們在某些事上
彼此都達不到共識
常常吵架
讓我很苦惱
不知道該不該繼續這段感情
因為我們交往...也算是以結婚為前提...

就偏偏在這段煩惱時期
老是有人問我什麼時候要結婚
不管是朋友
同事
就是連我父母也是...

唉
我就是知道女人有 biological clock
才更苦惱
我很喜歡小孩子
可是並不想要做個高齡產婦



好煩呀~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`

kaimui22

你才26呢...跟"高齡產婦"還有一段距離..

而且我認識很多26-30台灣女生都還沒結婚
也沒有急著結婚
她們覺得還沒有過 35都還算OK
現在最重要是找到適合的人﹐肯定了對方﹐再說婚嫁的問題

父母跟親戚是一定會追問的
可是如果你現在覺得你跟你男朋友根本沒有到這個地步﹐就不應該為了滿足別人而急著結婚

其實你父母會問只是因為你們都到了一定的年紀﹐身邊的朋友也開始包孫子
才會開始問你什麼時候結婚

就好像你被問一樣﹐你的父母也被問吧

so, just take it easy..
but first thing...make sure your bf is the one you want to marry
if you're not sure or you don't think your bf is the want you want to marry..then..maybe..consider other possibilities lu~

華美子

寧願搵岩對象也不要為結婚而結婚。雖說女人保鮮期有限，但嫁錯人仲慘過做老姑婆。嫁著個爛賭二，又或打女人既男人就真係家門不幸。我睇BK討論區都有好多呢Ｄ真實個案，因此唔好操之過急。

fibbi

Oh...26 is still young...I don't even consider getting married at that age...
I think at least 28-30 is good age to get married.

pepsis2

i thought u r like 30's tim! u're only 26! of course dun need to rush!

Man... although I'm ur same age & married & pregnant... but it's just b/c my hun is like +10 years older & mature (financially & psychologically)  enough... or else I don't think of getting married this early... well.... but a stable & loving relationship is a KEY factor to consider whether marry or not. I don't think youngsters can't marry b/c they'r too young or what-so-ever.  So u need to make up ur mind & consider seriously whether the relationship w/ ur bf is strongly committed enough to go into marriage...

angeldevil

原帖由 華美子 於 2008-6-11 23:37 發表
寧願搵岩對象也不要為結婚而結婚。雖說女人保鮮期有限，但嫁錯人仲慘過做老姑婆。嫁著個爛賭二，又或打女人既男人就真係家門不幸。我睇BK討論區都有好多呢Ｄ真實個案，因此唔好操之過急。 ...

exactly!!!
or emotional torment is even worst.

Littleprince

係呀﹐唔好心急﹐一定有真命天子在等你的。。。嫁錯仲弊過唔嫁呀。。。其實我有好多單身的女仔朋友﹐日子過得比已婚的更有趣更自由更快樂。。。

誰說女人一定要結婚﹖結了婚一身家務與兒女債更加辛苦。。。除非真的找到 MR。 RIGHT﹐否則千祈唔好為了別人加的壓力而結婚﹐否則後悔莫及。。。

pepsis2

嫁錯仲弊過唔嫁呀!
EXACTLY!

But keep in mind that DON'T set unrealistic expectations when u look for Mr. Right or else u will never find one...

GAClone

is it a bad thing that when you're early 20s and already thinking of settling down with someone...?

Purpleheart

唔結婚咪唔結婚囉 ! 我而家 27 , 都未結婚架! 又如何? 當一個女仔有學識, 有穩定職業, 養得起自己, 要男人黎做乜? 女人最緊要係有個錢旁身, 男人信唔過….男人會有機會離開你, 錢, 只要你唔用, 它永遠在你身邊!!