原帖由 bluemoon 於 2009-1-25 00:36 發表 
would there be case that the girl ask the guy to leave instead?
Also, I guess, to tell the other person (either the girl or the guy) wake up and go at 7am.. it shouldn't considered as 無風度 or ...
That's a really interesting point. I believe that this case about waking up and go at 7AM boils down to whether the girl is willing to do something. In this situation, the girl is willing (i.e., made a conscious decision by herself) to have a ONS with the guy. However, she is being given the command to leave right at 7AM in the morning. There was no discussion, no choice. That's what I meant by being inconsiderate of other's needs. If the guy was at least asking whether she could leave at 7AM, then although the girl might be slightly annoyed, I think that she will still be willing to go at 7AM without throwing a fit. If the guy asks, at least he is demonstrating that he is aware that waking up at 7AM might cause an inconvenience for the girl.
And why can't the guy at least let the girl know that she needs to be out of the house by 7AM before they go to his house? |