小叻

應該交往一段長時間先結婚~ 我唔太睇好拍拖一兩年就結婚個D囉~

布小熊

拍拖 and living together is very diff. You can 拍拖 for 10 years and still find a person totally different after moving together.

小叻

原帖由 布小熊 於 4-3-2009 10:20 發表
拍拖 and living together is very diff. You can 拍拖 for 10 years and still find a person totally different after moving together.

well..depends how they 拍拖 la.. just dating twice a week of coz different la.. but if they were together everyday for several years.. i think it does make a difference..

邊少

seem like guys are more responsible than women

fibbi

我認為結婚之前應該傾下，了解下大家會點樣分擔家頭細務，例如，如果老婆煮飯嘅話，老公會唔會洗碗？ 邊個負責吸塵？女嘅會唔會想男方每次去完廁所都放翻塊板落嚟等等。講清楚婚後就不會有咁多誤會啦

siumaibb

原帖由 fibbi 於 2009-3-4 11:54 發表
我認為結婚之前應該傾下，了解下大家會點樣分擔家頭細務，例如，如果老婆煮飯嘅話，老公會唔會洗碗？ 邊個負責吸塵？女嘅會唔會想男方每次去完廁所都放翻塊板落嚟等等。講清楚婚後就不會有咁多誤會啦 ...

洗唔洗sign定contract先？

小叻

其實洗碗﹐吸塵﹐去完廁所放翻塊板落等等都唔係太大問題者? 無話邊個要做邊個唔做~ 好簡單既事情~ 連依D都唔能夠忍讓﹐唔好結婚啦~
我本人覺得洗碗﹐吸塵都係老婆做好D~如果老公幫手就更開心啦~ 去廁所放翻塊板落﹐ 老公唔放自己方咪得囉~有乜問題wor~

kayllis

原帖由 fibbi 於 2009-3-4 11:54 發表
我認為結婚之前應該傾下，了解下大家會點樣分擔家頭細務，例如，如果老婆煮飯嘅話，老公會唔會洗碗？ 邊個負責吸塵？女嘅會唔會想男方每次去完廁所都放翻塊板落嚟等等。講清楚婚後就不會有咁多誤會啦 ...

i agree with you that communication is important before marriage la~~
but then... i think there are probably more important things to discuss about rather than who is going to do the housework...

i dont mean the ones you have mentioned is not important.. but in case if the couples couldnt find a solution... in worse case they can just hire a maid or something..=P

Purpleheart

從統計結果看來, 男人就算知道娶錯妻都唔會離婚.....原因是什麼呢?

女人覺得自己嫁錯郎就離婚, 是不是因為現今的女性都很理智呢?

fibbi

有好多時就係因為你認為我做，我認為你做，好多好似小事，積少成多，就會多咗拗撬。
大家拍拖嘅時候就係互相認識對方（主要係性格上），睇下夾唔夾，當然係認為夾嘅先會結婚，咁婚後又何來嫁錯／娶錯，拗撬通常都係來自啲好瑣碎嘅事，同埋錢 。或者係生活習慣唔同，所以咪要了解下啲習慣，同埋期望囉。

[ 本帖最後由 fibbi 於 2009-3-4 12:28 編輯 ]