Pooner

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-19 15:59 發表
Mr. Lik,
In Pooner's case, i think his ex/gf not neccessary 送上門. the way i see it is, she is not willing to commit or input into the relationship...HOWEVER, she doesn't want to give up the service  ...

ha... i think that's what it is... she's going to miss my "service"... plus i've been told by many that she wants to be the one that ends it with me... because now i'm dumping her... plus on her blog... she actually mentioned that she wants to keep me "until after the big days" (ex. valentine's)... that's why if i were to give her a chance... i'm leaning towards a break until sometime in spring... but who's to say she won't do nothing from now until spring (behind my back)... who knows...

fcuk i'm really leaning back to just cutting it clean now... no need to step into 2008 with all this in my mind...

Pooner

原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-19 16:14 發表
Sorry,  Pooner,

I gotta say, JUST DUMP THAT BITCH AND JOIN OUR CONSULTANT CREW!~

Seriously......... cheating is hard to forgive, but stabbed your back?!?!?!
I mean, if you love some one for real, t ...

haha thanks... give me more of these "encouragements"... maybe then i'll finally say goodbye to her for good... it's funny that i always contradict myself when i'm ready to do one thing...

asmok

Pooner, no matter how we think and how we think you should do, it all comes down to what you want to do.  

If you go back with her, then the question will be how many times you can handle being back stab by her?
If you dump her now, then the question will be can you cut all contacts with her?

From our point of view, it's a clear decision. But can you handle the consequence of those actions?

Maybe try to set your mind to predict what will happen base on her trends. At that time, you'll see how many times the cycle goes around which will help you make your decision.

Sorry, I'm only bring you more questions to help you understand yourself. Most of the time you already made up your mind and you just need someone to confirm your decision is right.

Pooner

原帖由 asmok 於 2007-12-19 22:39 發表
Pooner, no matter how we think and how we think you should do, it all comes down to what you want to do.  

If you go back with her, then the question will be how many times you can handle being back  ...

>Sorry, I'm only bring you more questions to help you understand yourself. Most of the time you already made up your mind and you just need someone to confirm your decision is right.

please... do not apologize... for your comments and suggestions are good for me... different POVs...
and i think u got me 100%... just need someone to confirm the decision is right (or the best one)...

my fcuking problem is that one day i'm soft... then the next day i'm strong-minded... totally split personality...

[ 本帖最後由 Pooner 於 2007-12-19 22:59 編輯 ]

Alcoholic

pooner,

hahaha
you've been told that she wants to dump you AND on her blog she plans to keep you until after the big days?! LOL maybe you should learn to be 賤格like her...

jackmeister

once a cheater, always a cheater

so many girls in vancouver, get a new girlfriend and save yourself this torture

Pooner

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-19 23:10 發表
pooner,

hahaha
you've been told that she wants to dump you AND on her blog she plans to keep you until after the big days?! LOL maybe you should learn to be 賤格like her...

maybe it's time for me to learn from the best... lol

Pooner

原帖由 Traum 於 2007-12-19 23:14 發表
阿潘哥仔﹐

佢做初一﹐你咪做十五囉。 一於學我話齋﹐去做返個賤男啦~

巴打﹐我撐你架~

-賤力

haha... oh mighty one...

Pooner

原帖由 jackmeister 於 2007-12-20 01:48 發表
once a cheater, always a cheater

so many girls in vancouver, get a new girlfriend and save yourself this torture

that's exactly it too... every word that comes out of her mouth now... i don't even take it 50%... she said she's knitting a scarf for me now... truthfully... i think either she bought it... or her mom is making it for her...