ricrick

如果想法同我係相反嘅人覺得愛係偉大，不是自私的。。。我問你：

你可以由此至終一直愛一個愛你嘅人

不過有幾多人，係可以由此至終一直愛一個不愛你嘅人？當你愛上一個不愛你嘅人，你或你的好友會同你講，放棄啦， ...
B仔 發表於 2009-5-1 00:24

無錯，由始至終戀愛都是自私，你受一個人溝，都是佢比到開心你，比到幸福你，比到高潮快感你，可能你會做D野令對方開心，但係最終都係"你想"對方開心，你快樂於是我快樂。你吾會周街搵個乞衣大發慈悲去愛佢卦？所以，戀愛由頭到尾都為自己的多！

B仔

Love to me is have a companion to go through rest of my life. That person will have similar value, similar interest etc...in other words...COMPATIBLE!
To me love is not selfish, because I'm not expect ...
fibbi 發表於 2009-5-1 00:33

所以我咪話，你要搵個同你COMPATIBLE／夾嘅。你唔會揀個同你有唔同VALUE嘅。即係話，如果你鍾意／愛一個人，不過明知道唔夾，你會放棄，因為佢唔會自願做D同你相等VALUE嘅野（係多係少都好，終知就唔係你心目中的LEVEL），你，係有EXPECTATION=要求，係一種你理想中嘅回報，唔係咩？所以，我先覺得，愛係自私囉。如果你係冇愛的EXPECTATION，每人擇偶就唔會有要求，就唔會理夾唔夾，都會默默地永遠愛著你看上的那人啦～

ricrick

唔係到時到候自動就有個靚女埋黎話﹕RICRICK我愛你﹐你愛我嗎﹖

係阿，你米對我講完law.. hoho
但係你放棄啦...，我地無可能架...

meowmeowmeow

如果想法同我係相反嘅人覺得愛係偉大，不是自私的。。。我問你：

你可以由此至終一直愛一個愛你嘅人

不過有幾多人，係可以由此至終一直愛一個不愛你嘅人？當你愛上一個不愛你嘅人，你或你的好友會同你講，放棄啦， ...
B仔 發表於 2009-5-1 00:24

That's right... once again... Love in away should be 自私...
At the end of the day, being in love should be happy, if you are not happy, then there's no point of being in love la...
The botton line is, not to hurt others, including yourself...

ricrick

The botton line is, not to hurt others, including yourself...

但係我傷女王既朵吾係浪得虛名wor
我岩岩先拒絕左小王子小姐gi ma

tofu

"""Love should be 自私... The bottom line is, not to hurt anyone, including yourself..."""
there is a conflict, if love is selfish, you will hurt someone eventually.  you left the person you don't love anymore or you keep bugging the one you love or ....

meowmeowmeow

"""Love should be 自私... The bottom line is, not to hurt anyone, including yourself..."""
there is a conflict, if love is selfish, you will hurt someone eventually.  you left the person you don't lov ...
tofu 發表於 2009-5-1 01:32

That is just an ideal~~~ of coz everyone got hurt in love...
A love B, but B doesn't love. A will get hurt. Just try to min the "injury".
Don't attempt to hurt others intensionally...

just my 2 cents...

ricrick

"""Love should be 自私... The bottom line is, not to hurt anyone, including yourself..."""
there is a conflict, if love is selfish, you will hurt someone eventually.  you left the person you don't lov ...
tofu 發表於 2009-5-1 01:32

吾係話自私，正確d麼該話係為自己

Nam

When you have to think about 戀愛的目的, then it's not love.

Littleprince

吾係話自私，正確d麼該話係為自己
ricrick 發表於 2009-5-1 02:35

甘你個答案同前面B花#5說的“為自己”咪岩囉﹐甘又點會係無目的唧﹖點會同你去大便一樣唧﹖