cinderelly

and leh.. what happens if you deliberately care and be really nice to him..? does he accept it or will it cause a 反效果..?

chrichri

小叻, 吾好灰心呀!
加油呀! 我支持你ga!

正如其他人所講, 而家最重要好好准備你既婚禮, 迎接你幸福既來臨.
既然上一代既事你理吾到又控制吾到, 就吾好想太多啦.
雖然你爸爸令你好難受, 但係做得爸爸到時都會顧及面子. 吾好太擔心啦.

你而家有大把野要准備, 吾好比其他事影響你, 開開心心面對同等你愛既人同你分擔。結婚係一件開開心心既事, 由試wedding gown, 簡結婚蛋糕, 買decoration, 同班friend開會, bridal shower。雖然好麻煩, 但係每一樣都會係你以後好開心既回憶。如果真係有太多野要擔心, 就交比你老公。

我記得我結婚果時都好大壓力, 好擔心, 不過d 朋友幫左我好多.
初初以為d朋友未結過婚, 又剛出來做事, 都怕佢地幫吾到手, 掛住玩, 應付吾到甘大場面, 怕佢地吾識招呼人客。結果…….

佢地不單無令我失望, 結婚當日從早到晚無停過, 由6點起身開始到我家化妝,
點算要用既野, pack up, clean up, make tea, decorate my house, 到church reception and decoration到 restaurant reception and decoration, 幫我change clothes, collect gifts and record them down都做到足直到 12:am pack up and deliver the gifts to my house先收工

係ne 個時候我建議你將開心同擔憂都同佢地分享. 吾好所有野都自已一個人承擔。一個人既力量有限. 就算你未必想將你既家事同佢地分享, 但至少佢地可以be with you and make you happy, reduce your stress and share you workload.

每一個家都可能有自已既問題, 但係最重要家裡面有愛同一點點珍惜!
想要完完整整既一個家絕對吾係奢侈, 我絕對相信你會有一個不單完整而係好幸福既家, 因為你地真心相愛互相珍惜!

祝你幸福快樂!

meowmeowmeow

I think he is 更年期或中年危機. He is very insecure of current situation. Seems like he does 喜歡 your mom, but scared that she will run away. He is 在钻牛角尖. Just like some older men chansing after young girls. It is a problem that he has to solve/face himself. As 一家人, we should try to help him, but to a certain extend and "吾好do傷害自己".

I aggree that "雖然你爸爸令你好難受, 但係做得爸爸到時都會顧及面子. 吾好太擔心啦."
加油呀! 支持你呀!

小叻

Thanks for all the support!! I Love you all

siumaibb

Thanks for all the support!! I Love you all
小叻 發表於 2009-5-12 11:29

there are so many good things other than those you're worrying about. so don't worry and start look for things that will make you happy.