SAZABI

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-2-21 11:55 發表
utopia,

我同你一樣。。。我鐘意的東西多數是自己買的﹐我不懂 TUM 人家送我東西﹐通常人家送我東西都是他/她自己心甘情願的。。。就算親人如父母﹐我也從不會用各種方法 TUM 他們送東西給我﹐而且覺得懂這樣做的女仔很厲害 ...

我仲以為係 "天公地道" 添...

utopia

Well, I'm not a saint and not insist to buy things by my own. I just have a hard time to ask people to buy things, I don't like the feeling owe people a favor.

Alcoholic

those jeh-jeh that needs to "tum" & flash "puppy face looks" to people to buy things is not high level enough la. 心甘情願give to me is higher level la.... hahaha

fibbi

I have heard the similar "story" from someone I know as well (in Van, not HK). Knowing the girl for around 2 or 3 months then the girl hinted a LV for gift so the guy bought her LV bag and Gucci wallet for total around $3000Cdn... Then a few months later she hint another expensive gift...sigh...

I just can't imagine girl "thick face" enough to receive that expensive gift (unless the guy is "Lee ga sing" or super rich). If the guy is just making ok pay how can the girl asks for such expensive gift. I remembered before when I was still in school, I don't even accept a $300 bracelet.

In other words, I think 獅子開大口 girls are everywhere...but at the same time, there are also girls won't ask for brand names and won't ask expensive gift. See if you are lucky enough to meet one.

Alcoholic

開大口 is ok. make sure you 開大脾 after. fair & square.

cinderelly

at least they're sort of together
i know someone who kept on accepting expensive gifts (tiffany bracelets, gucci handbags, burberry handbags) when she was being chased by the guy (he's not even that well off either). and i dun think they ever got together at all.

Littleprince

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-2-21 13:38 發表
Well, I'm not a saint and not insist to buy things by my own. I just have a hard time to ask people to buy things, I don't like the feeling owe people a favor.

所以通常如果朋友送了貴價的東西給我﹐例如有次有個很熟的女性朋友送我一個我很喜歡的水晶相架﹐在她生日時我就會設法明查暗訪她喜歡些甚麼東西﹐送回差不多相等價值的東西給她﹐我也不喜歡那種欠了人甚麼的感覺。

orange

睇化喇 ... the world will not be short of 觀音兵.

like another post said, if he's gonna do it, either exceed the expectations.  haha .. or go really low on the present.  要乜有乜反而無特別 .. 只會做人地個扯線公仔

Alcoholic

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-2-21 10:25 PM 發表

所以通常如果朋友送了貴價的東西給我﹐例如有次有個很熟的女性朋友送我一個我很喜歡的水晶相架﹐在她生日時我就會設法明查暗訪她喜歡些甚麼東西﹐送回差不多相等價值的東西給她﹐我也不喜歡那種欠了人甚麼的感覺。 ...

me too.
but then i won't give out cheap gifts period.

i know this guy.... so funny ga. he asked me to go look for a present for a female friend. he thought of scarfs, accessories... & asked me to choose. so i walked around with him for like 2 hours... and he has no idea what's his budget or what the girl likes. but i still give him the credit of trying. but since i don't know the girl, i couldn't really help at all. ended up buying this inexpensive (i don't wanna use the word cheap) necklace... for $8, from "Accessorize" (i think they closed down now, but similar to Aldo Accessories). then he was going to drop by the girl's party... but didn't! so he buy jor, but never gave to her. worse. i found out that girl is one of my BEST FRIENDS.
- first of all, it's pretty cheap to buy $8 gift for a 2X years old girl.
- 2ndly, if you bought it, still give it to her later or what. don't save it to give to someone else sin la
- get your connections right when you try hard to impress ALL the girls around you! (seriously! many inside stories. but in short, the same guy took ALL my friends out to chill including me & try to impress all of us. we know because we all talked about our experience).

not all girls want to be impressed when we don't have feelings for you. & guys no need to go around to impress all the girls around you in order to find out which ones has potential success rate to be "mixed" by you. by doing that, it just encourages some girls to rip off guys for any reason. so when guys complain about honger girls, make sure you understand they exist because of you.

siumaibb

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-2-21 21:26 發表
開大口 is ok. make sure you 開大脾 after. fair & square.

LOL, but if you 開大脾, you are not 矜貴 anymore