I used to be a person who think once I'm in a relationship. I will not break it and try to solve it or live with it unless I have no choice. (Especially long term relationship)
But as I grow older, to be with a person just because of responsibility is stupid. You are not happy with that person, and that unhappiness tend to be there forever. Why hurt each other and torture each other?
But of course, if there are children involve, I will live with it until my kids are old enough to take care of themselves.
BUT I do not agree to break it off easily, I will try to solve the problem and discuss with my other half before I make the decision. If I spend years try to save a relationship and it's still not work out. Why waste each other time? |