haven't been here for a long time. let me leave a note too.
I know it hurts when somebody ends a relationship. And many people around says, let's move on, you can find a better one. I have said something similar before. However, human is an emotional animal. How could you forget your ex? He/she was somebody closed to you before... How would you forget the time you spent with your ex? And what will you do when you "miss" him? Even if you drive away your attention, you will eventually think of him/her when your brain is free, or when you suddenly see something that driggers your mind to think about your ex... Pail will heal when time pass.. however, nobody knows how long would it take...
Base on "love", you have the "right" to "miss" your ex(es), as many as you like, provided that you are still single. If you're still missing someone, always have someone on your mind, don't even try to start a new relationship, that's not fair to the other party, not to say to get married with someone tim la. However, some people get into a relationship or get married not because of love, that's different stories.
(Note: all "you" above is a general "you".)
After I throw away the three thick diary, I'm compleletly disconnect with the previous love life.
I don't miss or love my ex(s) anymore. Depends on the situation or person, I still think of them but not as a lover but as an old friend. Once in a blue moon, I still go out for lunch w/ one of my ex. He apologized to me after so many years, and our friendship rebuilt lor.
After meeting my current bf, I just want to be with him forever and not looking for backup.
發表於 2009-6-16 19:59
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