SAZABI

你兩個咪玩啦... 去得 clubbing 做得魚會睇 personality???

Alcoholic

sazabi:
咁你都要比條魚覺得個餌係岩佢口味先得架~
for example,
if you go fish kids, you need to have a conversation that makes them feel that you're an easy party girl that is pretty drunk. of course, you always say you're tipsy...but always out drink the entire group of guys. alizee? jolly rancher? 收皮啦~ me & my girls go this combo: tequila, JD, Jager, 151 only. if we get thirsty, we would rather do beer than bottled water~ or else how would you think we fish their wallets dry & take action to scare the sh!t out of those wuss? kiddy fishy likes challenges you know.
if you go fish for higher level fish, you need a conversation that makes them feel that you're carefree, daring, independent, & enjoys life, travel, food, wine, investment/work etc...
if your trying to fish for treasure (real bf potential), then you have to put what's real on the table...instead of putting on a fake or partial of your personality.
so fishing... you gotta feed different personality to aim at different fish.

SAZABI

冇可能...
The fish doesn't care what you are feeding them if you don't present a "pleasant" appearance to them in the 1st place.
All in all, men* go for looks before personality.

*For usual LYK lamers, please forgive me for making a general statement, and don't come reply with "my mother's dog's neighbour's sister's cousin is an example that look at personality 1st." I do realize that such weirdo exists on this planet.

AmericanBeauty

I've never been to a club (I know I'm lame) so fishing with sexy outfit doesn't work for me. D:  I never fish in that kind of water territory, you know.
Yes, looks is important.  We make a judgement towards people based on superficial factors in the first 45 seconds of the encounter.  You have to look reasonably  well to give a good first impression in order to proceed to the next stage.  However, you have to offer other selling points after the first minute or so if you want the fish to be hooked.  Looks can only bring you so far before people get tired of it.
I don't want to be fishing up a guy who thinks I look great and would want to buy me a couple of drinks to get me to sleep with him.  I want a guy to be fascinated by my inner beauty which makes him forget about my deficiencies in "outer" beauty!
Of course, if the sole purpose of fishing up guys is to have a few hours of fun, then what I've said can be disregarded.  I am a very sentimental person and I can't bring myself to fish up guys so I can have some fun at their cost.  When I go fishing, I want to bring home something good that I can keep. ;)

Alcoholic

sazabi:
let's just say that my hubby saw my pic online~ but when he met me, he did not get what he saw. and what i am now, is the complete opposite of his first sight of my pic.