嫁比一個自己唔係好愛嘅人

creamy

如果有一個你唔係好愛佢，但係佢好愛你嘅人同你求婚，而你又係一個接近三十，姿色漸退嘅中女，你會唔會制呢？

最近身邊有幾個類似嘅case：有幾個面對現實，襯重有人要，唔理好醜，wear返件先算。亦有人堅持最緊要浪漫，絕不對冇feel者屈服。

有feel，浪漫，係咪真係咁緊要呢？ 再過十年，真正比到幸運你嘅又會係邊個？堅持又係咪一定會等到真命天子？

大家身邊有冇類似嘅case呢？嫁比一個自己唔鍾意，但係對自己好好嘅人，又係咪真係會得到幸運呢？

tiffiant

i will, if rick and cwong let me share husbands

Purpleheart

Creamy 不妨參考一下呢個 post 丫~

http://www.loyaukee.com/forum/vi ... page%3D1&page=1

我聽過身邊好多 stories...包括我自己.....結論係最愛的那個永遠唔會係同你結婚o個個

我曾經都有諗過樣的問題: 嫁比一個自己唔鍾意，但係對自己好好嘅人，又係咪真係會得到幸運呢？

不過聽完那隻歌又覺得林夕講得好岩:

" 如果戀愛為結婚　如果擁抱為名份
何苦等半生　沒人沒有情人　如果甘心
誰的心可及你狠　誰肯恩愛亦榮幸
難刻骨銘心　亦能找到護蔭
忘愛自然合襯 "

從這裡我找到答案......

Ultraman

There are always 3 scenarios:
1. you love him/her more than he/she loves you;
2. he/she loves you more than you love him/her; and
3. you both love each other pretty much the same.
Where no.3 is counted as very rare case, which one you'll choose between 1 & 2? Or just be a single?

tofu

if you don't pick this guy now, you may be alone till dead.  can you accept it?
i think it is depend on what you are looking for. a lover?  a partner?

myversa

it will come down if this lady is willing to compromise when living together with that guy who loves her very much.  Love is one thing and living with another person is another totally different thing.  Even she does not love him that much but is she willing to face that guy every morning and willing to let him into her life.

I am lucky and so is my wife and we all can marry to someone whom we love.

B仔

如果你好似好多女人咁，缺乏自信/唔甘心／驚一世背負：老姑婆，眼角高，太清高，嚇走人。。。你咪嫁囉～

當你有少少骨氣，樂觀性格，自信可捉緊時機同時亦找啱人，咁你就以："非愛不嫁" 的心態去選擇喇～！

siumaibb

接近三十，姿色漸退嘅中女.......can you call someone 中女 when she is not even 30?!

布小熊

I know!!! Isn't 中女 suppose to mean 40 - 50 (middle age women)??

btw. I for sure won't get married just because of getting married... @@

B仔

接近三十，姿色漸退嘅中女.......can you call someone 中女 when she is not even 30?!
siumaibb 發表於 2009-11-23 11:19

"未夠三十嘅中女"，呢個TERM，係我地LYK偉大嘅C姑好早教落的～ 佢已經比我GUT過啦～！
（當然，我唔係話CREAMY係C姑啦～ 我相信C姑絕對唔怕嫁唔出，話哂佢日日都比唔同嘅老細TIMESHARE緊）