被不愛的人愛著

Icebaby

那感覺很煩厭。

若他坦白說﹐我還有機會拒絕。

偏偏﹐我當他是好兄弟 (我地響 FB 一齊玩一個戰爭遊戲﹐所以係幫會兄弟)﹐但我知道他很喜歡我。

只是他那種喜歡﹐使我十分煩厭﹐糾纏得很﹐又唔方便罵他﹐因為我們其實識左幾年﹐很好朋友﹐我不想失去這個朋友。

但是他早又早晨﹐晚又晚安﹐返工又話我返工了﹐拜拜啊﹐這些。。。 我又唔係他女友﹐關我屁事﹖ 而且人家要工作的﹐怎方便時常回答他﹖ 就是得閒回答﹐也覺得這些 conversations 很沒味道﹐很悶蛋。

老友記會點處理﹖

我暫時只係詐看不見﹐沒理會﹐冷淡對待。。。

但係死 FB 好乞人憎﹐看了不能詐沒看見﹐因為寫著“看了”

好討厭啊

BiscottiGelato

Is the interaction mostly online?

布小熊

Just tell him. If he reacts to that negatively, then he really isn't your friend. (just a bf-want-to-be)

Prelude

You got tell him up front.  Tell him that he should do those things with his gf instead of you.

He will either propose or hide, if he proposes, then you can tell him you don't like him.
If he hides, then repeat first sentence again, and that's your only reply until he proposes.

ah3

Isn't the fb "seen" a good thing? He knows it's seen, and if you don't reply, then that's a sign to him, if he's smart enough...

BiscottiGelato

Just tell him u only wanna be friends w/ him loh. But if the interaction is really only mostly online i dun see how this became a problem to begin with~

Icebaby

Just tell him u only wanna be friends w/ him loh. But if the interaction is really only mostly onlin ...
BiscottiGelato 發表於 2013-5-30 13:41

'cuz my phone is linked to fb... and when he keeps on annoyed me, it appeared on my cell phone so it's bothering me... the problem is I don't want to lose the friendship or else I can just block him...

Icebaby

Isn't the fb "seen" a good thing? He knows it's seen, and if you don't reply, then that's a sign to  ...
ah3 發表於 2013-5-30 00:04

apparently he isn't...

4boybun

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布小熊

'I don't want to lose the friendship
Icebaby 發表於 2013-5-30 02:47 PM

This is the part that I don't understand.
This "friendship" isn't true friendship if he found out that he has NO CHANCE of being your bf and stop talking to you.
If he is your real friend, tell him DIRECTLY and see how he deals with it.